Sunday, November 3, 2013

Every Day is Valentine’s Day in Maui

Maui is a very romantic place.  We don’t really celebrate Valentine’s Day.  Sometimes, I’ll get Shannan a card or make her something, but I learned early on, actually the first V.D. we were together that she hates V.D.  I was pretty bummed at the time.  I wanted hearts and flowers and candy.  But what I would soon learn is she is pretty romantic many days out of the year and doesn’t need one day to tell her to be.  I, on the other hand, need that guidance!  Every day we spent in Maui was wonderful and majestic.  It almost seemed silly to focus on Saturday as any more special than the rest.

We drove down to Makena, which is at the southwestern part of the island.  The drive was gorgeous (big surprise!) with the spectacular ocean views.  You could just tell you were entering the very wealthy section of Maui because everything was just nicer…the landscaping, the strip malls, the houses, and then came the resorts.  Yes, where we stayed was nice, but it’s kind of like, look in the direction of the resorts and it looks good, but look the other way where the locals live, and it’s not so nice.  A lot of the shopping areas need a facelift.  The landscaping isn’t impeccable throughout.  But here as we approached Wailea, it wreaked of money!  Then I remembered Jon & Kate Plus 8 (sorry, I love that show) stayed at the Grand Wailea to renew their vows.  At the time I saw that episode, I quickly jumped on the internet to find out why I hadn’t discovered this place in my research and to see if we wanted to stay there.  Uh, yeah, ok, it costs like $7,000 a night.  That’s why.  You know they didn’t pay a dime.  Note to self:  Have two sets of multiples, get own TV show, go to exotic places for free.  Maybe not.

Anyone who knows me knows I always pack a lot of stuff when I’m going to be away all day, including food and water.  I just didn’t feel like it; I figured we would just get lunch when we got there.  Big mistake.  Little did I know that Shannan ate lunch before we left.  I had breakfast early in the day and really didn’t give it much thought (so unlike me).  After we passed the big expensive resorts, we came upon the parking lot to Oneloa Beach, aka Big Beach, a long white-sand beach, and I realized I was in trouble.  There was no food, no bathrooms, except for a Port-a-John, pretty much no civilization.  Oh, well, I guess if I get hungry, Shannan will have to trek back to the food truck 2 miles back on the side of the road.  She didn’t like that idea too much.  Is it too much to ask on Valentine’s Day that you go gather some nuts for me on a deserted island?  After a short disagreement about our respective hunter/gatherer roles, we were immediately distracted by the insanely incredible beach we were about to enter.  Wow!  This has got to be the most beautiful beach I have ever seen in my entire life!  It was moderately crowded, empty compared to Jersey beaches, a lot of people for Maui. 

We had a great time swimming and people watching.  We decided to venture over the remnants of a volcano lava rock mountain (small one; don’t get crazy) to see Little Beach, which is known to be a gay beach and attracts nudists (not necessarily gay nudists).  It seemed from afar as though people were climbing stairs up the lava rock and going up and over.  But when we got there, I was not thrilled to see there were no steps, just rock.  Maybe I can swim over?  Ok, ok, I’ll give it a try.  Shannan had to hold my hand and guide me where to step.  It wasn’t easy, especially in flip-flops, but the locals were walking up and down it as though they were walking on flat land, which didn’t make me feel any better.  I did it though, and I’m sure there was a fair bit of whining along the way.  As we approached Little Beach, however, I noticed there was no real way down off the rocks.  Shannan (and everyone else and their mother) managed just fine, but I paced back and forth looking for a good spot to make my way down.  There really wasn’t one…except out towards the water; I could see a perfect step down.  The only problem was there was a nude local woman sprawled out on a beach towel right where I needed to step.  Oh, well, life’s a bitch, right?  So I made my way over, muttered some apology in advance, something about “I’m not in Jersey anymore,” as Shannan grabbed my hand to help me down.  First, though, I kicked sand in her Tecate beer cans, again apologizing profusely.  Good thing they were empty.  I didn’t even notice her large breasts during this whole thing.  Well, maybe I peeked a little.

While we’re on the subject, I don’t much like nude beaches.  It’s so damned distracting.  Everybody’s nude!  Nudity is a strange thing.  It’s like a car wreck on the highway.  You want to get where you’re going, but you want to see what happened.  When you look, sometimes, you see something you don’t want to see, like blood and guts.  You wish you hadn’t looked, but on the other hand, you want to know what blood and guts looks like, other than on TV.  I know what nude people look like.  I’ve seen plenty of nude people throughout my lifetime.  But nudists tend not to be the kind of people we are accustomed to seeing, like in movies.  I am completely amazed at the confidence exuding from the dozens of men strutting around with nothing more than a baby bird hanging from their…well, you get the picture. 

You can tell who the tourists are too.  They’re the ones with serious tan lines and whiter-than-white private areas and ridiculous hats on.  The real nudists are all one color and aren’t screaming, “Look at me!  I’m nude!”  They’re just chillin’.  But…you know what they say…when in Rome…no, we didn’t, not quite, but we did pull our bathing suit tops down when we were swimming in the water.  It does feel good to go au naturale in the water.  That was as far as we were going to take it.  We didn’t stay long, because, as I said, I found it all so distracting, and I don’t think people appreciated the “deer in the headlights” stare on my face.  Time to go.

That night we went into Lahaina.  We ate at the Cheeseburger in Paradise, a fun burger joint opened by a couple of lesbians, who expanded to three other locations in Hawaii, one in Vegas, and one in Key West, which me and Santina went to last year.  They had a guy and a guitar singing, which was fun.  The food was good too.  We shopped a little and stood in awe of the famous Banyan Tree, which is the largest in Hawaii.  I couldn’t take a picture of it because it’s just too big, but it is one of the coolest things I’ve ever seen.  It is 50 feet tall and has 12 major trunks that jet out in every direction horizontally and then at a 90-degree angle back into the ground.  Way cool.

More to come…


J.Bo.

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